If two people were born with completely equal opportunities do you think.....?

I don't think there's ever an acceptable reason to "look down" on someone. Even if they were given equal opportunities in life, there is still no way of knowing their situation or how they ended up the way they did. Perhaps the other person has a serious mental illness, maybe they were abused at home, maybe someone they were close to died and they fell into a depression because of it. I mean, it's hard to know WHY someone turned out the way they did, and I couldn't judge someone who didn't take the same path in life that I chose. Maybe the other person is genuinely HAPPY with the way their life turned out and they chose not to get an education and didn't want a typical joe-schmoe job. I just don't like the idea of looking down on someone if you don't know what happened in their life or what caused them to "fail life".