Mommies out there, i need some tips on parenting my kids..?

They are still pretty young, and it isn't going to be easy to just set rules all of a sudden, they might not like it. You will have to be very consistent with your new parenting way. I would just make sure they pick up their own messes, the six year old can help set the table for dinner, brush their teeth on their own. I would have them help you with things, if you are doing something ask them to help you out, because if they helped it would make you really happy. Kids like to do things if they know it is for you. They like to make you happy. I'm not really to sure what you would want to know.